Is your toddler ready to move from a cot to a bed?
The decision to move your toddler to a bed of their own is a big one, these signs will let you know if they are ready to take that step.
While there is no exact age for when a toddler is ready to transition into a bed, the average age range is somewhere between two and four years, according to Natalie Willes, a baby and toddler sleep trainer.
When transitioning, it’s best to wait until your toddler is physically (i.e. would be able to get in and out of bed easily) and emotionally ready to move. Don’t hurry this transition if your toddler seems happy in their cot (and the cot itself is not becoming a danger to them). Try to do it at a time when there is no other upheaval in their life or routine.
If any of the following scenarios apply to you, it may be time to go big bed shopping:
• Your toddler is able or attempts to climb out of their cot;
• The barriers of the cot wake them up because they roll around a lot;
• They are potty training and needs to be able to get to the toilet at night;
• You need the cot for a new baby on the way.
If you’re moving your toddler to create room for the arrival of a new baby, make the move at least three months before baby’s birth so your toddler doesn’t associate their move with the arrival of their sibling, which could create resentment.
The pros and cons of a toddler bed
Toddler beds are usually similar in size to a cot; or you may already have a cot that converts into a toddler bed. Toddler beds work well because the experience is similar to a cot so your toddler shouldn’t struggle to adjust, the lowered safety bars also reduce the risk of your toddler falling out and hurting themself.
The downside is that it won’t be long before your toddler will need to transition to a bigger bed, so it might be better to go straight to a regular-sized bed.
WHAT TO LOOK FOR
Bed shops and specialty children’s furniture stores often stock single- or three-quarter beds that are lower to the ground. These allow your toddler to get in and out of bed safely and prevent serious injuries should they fall. A good idea is to put the cot mattress on the floor or some pillows for your toddler to land on should they roll over.
Your toddler may need you to help them transition to the bigger bed by snuggling together before they fall asleep, so it may be better to invest in a three-quarter bed instead of a single to give you space to share the bed should you need to.
Make sure your toddler’s room is safe
Now that your toddler can move about at night it’s important to make sure there is nothing in their bedroom that could potentially be harmful. Electrical cables and appliances such as heaters, fans and humidifiers should be packed away or hung high, out of reach. Lock away all medication and other ingestible liquids, and make sure the floor is clear of toys at bedtime.
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