Having a child is a life-changing experience for both men and women. For women, who bear the responsibility of carrying the child from conception to birth, the experience is very different to that of men. As the baby develops in her womb, mom’s attachment and bond grows every day. For men, the moment of bonding occurs at the time of birth. This is a key moment, and all dads should ideally be present at the birth.
Having a hands-on approach from the start helps dads create a unique and special bond with their child. Each parent has their own strengths and abilities, and having a child is a real test of how these different skills can be combined to produce a healthy, nurturing environment not only for your baby, but for the family unit.
Communication is key
As the child grows, the role of each parent becomes more clearly defined in the child’s life. Depending on the personality of each parent, these roles have a major impact on the child’s development. This particular influence is not so dependent on the difference between moms and dads, but rather on their individual personalities and ways of handling situations.
For all parents, the key to harmony in the home is good communication. This is especially relevant with children, who by their nature will push boundaries as they grow and develop. A consistent attitude and set of rules respected by both parents gives a sense of stability to the home. This can only be achieved by negotiation and discussion, in which both parents agree to understand and respect the other’s opinion.
Be a superdad!
Dad becomes an increasingly important role model for his children as they mature. By his actions, Dad sets the standard for the child. Children learn by what they see, not just by what they are told. While this in itself is a challenge, it is also a great opportunity for Dads to develop in their own behaviour habits and practices that set a standard the child can aspire to.
Having a child allows Dad the opportunity to be a superhero! Enjoy it, Dad, it doesn’t last forever, but it is one of the greatest blessings of having a child. This opportunity should be used by dads to relook at their own lives through the eyes of their children, and to rise to the challenge of being the superhero that your child believes you are. Enjoy the zest your children have for life and allow it to inspire you anew to pursue your own dreams and aspirations even as you carry the load of life’s responsibilities.
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